A cinch

If something is a cinch, it is a piece of cake, a walk in the park, like stealing candy from a baby, child's play, a cakewalk, a picnic, a breeze, no sweat, a snap.

1. Getting the hang of (getting used to) a smart phone is a cinch. Do you think that if someone does not have a smart phone they are missing out? Do you think they are being left behind technologically?

2. I always tell people that learning English (or any language for that matter) is a piece of cake. What attitudes do you think you need to have to be successful at learning English?

3. Climbing Mount Everest or cycling across Brazil is no walk in the park. What is the most difficult physical activity you have ever undertaken?

4. Some people think it is so difficult to play a musical instrument and that you have to be musically talented to do so. I think anything is child's play, as long as you take it one step at a time.

Say vs. Tell

Say and tell mean exactly the same thing… We just use them differently grammatically. You can say (something) TO (someone), or you can tell (someone something). Besides that, it also depends on what phrase/ expression you are using. Either way the grammar stays the same.

1. All parents love this expression: "Do as I say, don't do as I do."

2. Lionel Richie really knew his grammar, as demonstrated in his song, "Say you, say me." In this case he is not relaying information... he is giving someone an instruction (Imperative), just like your English teacher.

3. Can you tell the time just by looking at the position of the sun in the sky?

4. If you are torn between telling a lie and telling the truth, keep in mind that generally "honesty is the best policy."

5. Whenever we would travel anywhere, and we asked our mom where we were going, she used to say to us, "There and back to see how far it is."

6. Do you recognize the lyrics to any of these songs: "Tell me why… ", "Say what you need to say.", "...and you can tell everybody this is your song… ", "Say my name, say my name."?

Cut in (line):

If someone cuts in a line, they join a line ahead/ in front of people who arrived before them… in an unfair way. (furar fila)

1. Even though it is common in some countries and cultures, social etiquette determines that we really should not cut in line… We should join the back of the line. Do you live in a civilized city?

2. "First come, first serve" is the reason why we form lines. If someone cuts in line, they are getting served before someone who had arrived before them.

3. If someone cuts in a line that you are in, do you make comments? Do you speak to that person directly? Are you relived or pacified when someone else makes a comment and complains?

4. In England, New Zealand, Australia and South Africa it is common to say "queue" instead of a line. Either way, it is still frustrating when someone cuts in front of you in a queue!

Go Ahead...

When you tell someone to go ahead, you are telling them to continue without worrying too much about something or giving it too much thought. You may be telling someone to "feel free" to take the next step.

1. If you see a product that you like online, do you just go ahead and buy it on the spot... or you give any purchase some forethought before handing over your credit card details?

2. When a group of people sit down together to have a meal, and you are not able to eat at that very moment, you could simply tell them, "Please, go ahead and start without me… "

3. If you follow any video tutorial online, and there are step-by-step instructions, you will most likely hear, "Go ahead and… " a number of times, instead of "Next… "

4. If somebody threatens you in any situation, and you know their threats are empty, you can start off by saying, "Go ahead… " to show them that you are not overly worried: 
- I'm going to Facebook and Twitter about this and let everybody know! 
- Go ahead... be my guest.

5. In the Clint Eastwood movie, "Sudden Impact", there is a standoff situation with a hostage, and Harry Callahan says to the gunman one of the most famous movie quotes ever: "Go ahead, make my day." 
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Flt9K8vlJGE

Was/ were going to (+ verb):

 If you were going to do or say anything, you had the intention of doing it but something happened to interrupt or stop whatever it was, or maybe you changed your mind. 

1. I was going to settle down and live in Maceio in the State of Alagoas, but after spending 5 days there, I decided to move to a bigger city… and the rest is history! 

2. I was going to go to São Sebastião market in downtown Fortaleza on Sunday morning to eat buchada, but I had to cancel that outing with some of my students because I got home from a wedding celebration the night before very late. 

3. Whenever we have a change of plans we say, “I was 

going to… but then….” Tell me about something you were going to do but then had to call it off (cancel it). 

4. I was going to return to South Africa before the 2010 world cup, but after the start of the global financial crisis at the end of 2008, I decided to come to Brazil instead. The crisis changed many peoples’ plans. 

5. I was going to study to be a vet, but somehow I changed my mind and decided to study photography. 

Suck it up!

 Mushy = sentimental           Nail (something) = to do or say something perfectly 

Etymology: Probably a variation of the expression "suck up your chest," meaning "compose yourself, bear your troubles, stand tall, and proceed." It’s a popular and informal way of telling someone that they have to “put up with” a situation (tolerate it) whether they like it or not. Some similar expressions: “deal with it”, “push through it”, “man up” (be a man) and “grin and bear it.” 

1. If I’m feeling under the weather I just have to suck it up and continue teaching classes. I might have to push through a headache, a cold, sleepiness, stress or a number of feelings. It’s the same with most jobs. 

2. People who work in customer service or have clients have to deal with difficult people as part of their job. Part of being professional is biting your tongue and sucking it up. Everyone appreciates someone who can remain calm even when they have to deal with angry complaining customers. 

3. When people try out (go to an audition) for talent shows such as “American Idol” or “The X Factor”, they have to listen to the judges’ final decision and suck it up no matter how scathing (severe) the criticisms: www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXHSFI-hVR4 

4. With what circumstance(s) in life do you have to suck it up because there is nothing you can do to change it right now? An irritable boss? Noisy neighbors? A critical mother-in-law? 

Tag questions

 There are 3 things to consider with tag questions: (1) The +/- relationship, (2) Use the same auxiliary verb OR verb “to be” in the “tag” as in the statement, (3) If there is no auxiliary in the statement, use the auxiliary “do” in the tag. 

1. – This is Frank’s pen, isn’t it? I guess I should take it back the next time I have English class. 

2. – You aren’t seriously considering telling your boss exactly what you think of him, are you!? 

3. – You (do) know how to use the present perfect tense, don’t you? If not, you can’t ignore it any longer. 

4. – We could just pretend that we know the people in the front of the line and cut in, couldn’t we? 

5. – I should always say “com licença” when I enter someone’s house in Brazil, shouldn’t I?... and I don’t need to say “excuse me” when I enter a native English speaker’s house, do I? 

6. – I mustn’t drink milk and eat mango together, right? (A Brazilian old wives' tale based on historical superstition)

A tad...

 “A tad” is the same as saying, “A little”. It is more expressive and very commonly used in natural speech. It is mostly used in a humorous, especially sarcastic way. 

1. We also use “a tad (bit)” when we make an understatement… that is when we make something seem less serious or extreme than it really is. For example: “It’s a tad bit hot in the Sahara Desert”. 

2. John D. Rockefeller was an American industrialist and philanthropist who played a pivotal role in the establishment of the oil industry and defined the structure of modern philanthropy. Rockefeller strongly believed that his purpose in life was to make as much money as possible and then use it wisely to improve the condition of mankind. When asked once, "How much money is enough money?" He replied, "Just a little bit more." Don’t all of us always want just a tad bit more money?! 

3. When someone asks you whether you are lazy, forgetful or anything of that nature, and you feel that you must be honest, you can respond, “Just a tad bit”.